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The sexiest day of the year is coming up! So ladies, I don't care if you are with or without man (or woman) it is vitally important you wear some pretty undergarments! Ok so maybe that was and over exaggeration. But wearing sexy underwear (whatever that means to you) is so important for every woman. And I mean EVERY woman; regardless of age or body type. You NEED this. I'm not trying to be naughty so get your mind outta the gutter and give me a chance to explain...
This isn't about impressing anyone; not your boy/girlfriend, not your husband/wife, not a lucky stranger, so forget that. I say you NEED this for the sole benefit of YOURSELF. There are a lot of women out there who DON'T wear lovely intimates for a variety of reasons:
- There's no point if no one sees it
- It's at the bottom of your wardrobe priorities
- You don't have a "significant other"
- If it's not nude or black, it's impractical
- You don't deserve it
- Your body isn't Victoria Secret worthy
- You're too old
I get it. But it sounds like a bunch of excuses to me. How do I know? Well I used to be one of these women. I didn't think I deserved it. I didn't think my body was worthy. I didn't think it made a difference if I sported a lacy number or a ratty old bra with the wire sticking out. I thought all this...until I tried it. Out of the blue, bordering on my mid-twenties, I bought some cute matching pieces at LaSenza. They were a steal at their semi-annual sale. The first time I wore them out I felt different, like a had a secret superpower. No one had to know because I knew, and apparently that's all that mattered.
It turns out...
- It's at the bottom of your wardrobe priorities
- You don't have a "significant other"
- If it's not nude or black, it's impractical
- You don't deserve it
- Your body isn't Victoria Secret worthy
- You're too old
I get it. But it sounds like a bunch of excuses to me. How do I know? Well I used to be one of these women. I didn't think I deserved it. I didn't think my body was worthy. I didn't think it made a difference if I sported a lacy number or a ratty old bra with the wire sticking out. I thought all this...until I tried it. Out of the blue, bordering on my mid-twenties, I bought some cute matching pieces at LaSenza. They were a steal at their semi-annual sale. The first time I wore them out I felt different, like a had a secret superpower. No one had to know because I knew, and apparently that's all that mattered.
It turns out...
Pretty underwear = Feeling sexy = More confidence = Improvement in all aspects of life
It's a slippery slope maybe. But tell me it's not the truth!
If you're starting to get a little bit uncomfortable, it mean you probably need this undies-intervention the most! What is so bad about feeling sexy? Y'all know sexy and promiscuity are different right? Sexy is not only a manner of dressing or how many men you're hitting. Slutty is not sexy. It's reflected in your personality, in the way you conduct yourself, in the way you command a room. You can find it in the way you walk, in the way you talk, in the way you silently carry yourself. Can you believe that's what pretty underwear can do?
Some benefits
- Increases your self-confidence - this is a HUGE turn on for the majority of people. When you feel sexy, you start believing in other positive qualities about yourself.
- Elevates your mood - you finally realize how hot you are! WERK! A positive self-image means you are happy with yourself. And once you are happy with yourself you can feel that way about other aspects in your life!
- Increases your self-value and worth - It's about damn time you realize that you deserve some nice things. You take care of everyone in your life, not it's time to give yourself that same love.
- It sets the stage for your outfit - A good set of undergarments aren't just cute; they know how to keep your figure on point while keeping a low profile.
- You get better posture - since this new found self-confidence don't you find you are standing a little taller? Whether or no you are aware, you start presenting yourself as a more confident person.
- Brings about positive vibes - though this is an external improvement to your image, you will find this will resonate internally. Once you get right with yourself, you will notice a positive change in your life because you carry yourself in such a way.
Ladies, you just have to treat yourself once in a while. I really think small treats like this really make a HUGE impact in the way you feel about yourself and the way you view yourself. Doing something nice for yourself is NOT selfish. Valuing yourself is NOT selfish. You deserve to feel beautiful. You deserve to enjoy your own reflection. You are a strong woman so don't fear your inner vixen!
If you're starting to get a little bit uncomfortable, it mean you probably need this undies-intervention the most! What is so bad about feeling sexy? Y'all know sexy and promiscuity are different right? Sexy is not only a manner of dressing or how many men you're hitting. Slutty is not sexy. It's reflected in your personality, in the way you conduct yourself, in the way you command a room. You can find it in the way you walk, in the way you talk, in the way you silently carry yourself. Can you believe that's what pretty underwear can do?
Some benefits
- Increases your self-confidence - this is a HUGE turn on for the majority of people. When you feel sexy, you start believing in other positive qualities about yourself.
- Elevates your mood - you finally realize how hot you are! WERK! A positive self-image means you are happy with yourself. And once you are happy with yourself you can feel that way about other aspects in your life!
- Increases your self-value and worth - It's about damn time you realize that you deserve some nice things. You take care of everyone in your life, not it's time to give yourself that same love.
- It sets the stage for your outfit - A good set of undergarments aren't just cute; they know how to keep your figure on point while keeping a low profile.
- You get better posture - since this new found self-confidence don't you find you are standing a little taller? Whether or no you are aware, you start presenting yourself as a more confident person.
- Brings about positive vibes - though this is an external improvement to your image, you will find this will resonate internally. Once you get right with yourself, you will notice a positive change in your life because you carry yourself in such a way.
Ladies, you just have to treat yourself once in a while. I really think small treats like this really make a HUGE impact in the way you feel about yourself and the way you view yourself. Doing something nice for yourself is NOT selfish. Valuing yourself is NOT selfish. You deserve to feel beautiful. You deserve to enjoy your own reflection. You are a strong woman so don't fear your inner vixen!
Don't let judgments of people shame you for wanting to feel sexy. Take your power back by taking control of your sexuality and owning it. If you don't, you leave it up to other people to objectify you, to guilt you, to shame you. This isn't an advocacy for promiscuity. Absolutely not. I am simply wanting women to OWN WHAT THEY GOT. We need to start viewing ourselves differently. If sassy panties and bras can help facilitate these positive vibes, isn't it worth a try?
Remember this is something you should do for yourself, not for social media likes. You don't need validation from others. The beauty about this little change is that no one needs to know except you. It's your secret. Hmm...that's probably why they call it Victoria's SECRET...ah ha! Nothing in your life if going to change unless you get out of your comfort zone. When you do, you will make people go, "DANG GIRL!" and they won't even know about your cute secret. You are a GORGEOUS woman so start believing it.
...and it can start with a pretty bra and panty.
Remember this is something you should do for yourself, not for social media likes. You don't need validation from others. The beauty about this little change is that no one needs to know except you. It's your secret. Hmm...that's probably why they call it Victoria's SECRET...ah ha! Nothing in your life if going to change unless you get out of your comfort zone. When you do, you will make people go, "DANG GIRL!" and they won't even know about your cute secret. You are a GORGEOUS woman so start believing it.
...and it can start with a pretty bra and panty.
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